The Importance of Trust in any Relationship!
I have been reading my book of the month and I have been so
excited to learn new things in this book that I decided to share with you my
thoughts so far with this book and once I finish I will give you some more
afterthoughts about the book.
The book I am presently reading is called “TRUST WORKS” by
Ken Blanchard. From the point of view of
a Licensed Professional Counselor I began reading the strategies and began to
see on how the strategies given in the book can actually help my patients and
people within my environment create healthier relationships.
I asked myself What is Trust?
noun: trust
1.firm belief in the reliability, truth,
ability, or strength of someone or something. "relations have to be built
on trust"
What are the fundamentals of a healthy relationship
1.
Love
2.
Trust
3.
Communication
Then looking further, how can someone communicate with
another person without trust. What would happen to the love of someone without
the foundation of trust.
So far the strategies I was able to gain is the following:
·
A-Able- Do positive behaviors that will help the
person whom you want to gain the trust with.
·
B-Believable- Do positive behaviors that is
believed to be by the person who needs to gain your trust. Each person’s mind
is their own world, therefore just because you do something positive does not
mean that the other person will see that positive deed as something good to
gain trust.
·
C-Connectedness- Try to understand the person’s
point of view and where they come from. You don’t have to agree with their
point of view. Just understand who they are with what they believe in. If you
understand their belief’s they will begin to connect with you and gain some
trust.
·
D-Dependability- This is where when the going
gets tough, you are there to help the other person. You are physically,
emotionally, spiritually there for the person to where they can depend on you
to help them in a positive manner.
The final ingredient to bring everything together is
patience. Nothing great was created in one day. Keep doing those 4 strategies
and you will be able to have an awesome healthy relationship just by being
consistent with your behaviors.
Have you tried any other strategies to help you gain the
trust of someone to create a better relationship? How did it work out?
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